There seems to be a lot of negativity in blog land

I am going to make this post short.  I just need to get down on paper why I am upset today.  I am tired of reading blogs where people are defending themselves, their choices, and where they are right now in this journey, only because someone has chose to judge them.


I know that we BOOBS, would never do this to each other now would we?  We all know what it is like to work our butts off and have something unexpected happen that throws a wrench into our "best laid plans of mice and men" goals.  A band revision, a slipped band, band removal, poor choices of food, eating around the band, what ever it might be.  We all know!


I want to let everyone who follows me know, that I sit in judgement of no one, HELL I am not a model bandster, I fell and I fell hard.  I know what it is like, what happens when you do and I have only compassion for those who are struggling.  I have only hugs of acceptance and words of encouragement for them.  I will say, I wish someone would have slapped me silly when I did fall, to wake my ass up to what I was doing before I did it.


This is not easy, no one should ever make it sound like it is.  If they do then they are lying to you plain and simple.


I love the women whom I met and became friends with in Chicago, and those who I have yet to meet, whose blogs inspire me to keep going.  Those who have met their goals, but not without HARD FRICKING work.


Enough Said!


Happy Tuesday my friends